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    Continuous Improvement

    February 10, 2019 - By Melissa Heisler

    The reason I became a coach is because I didn’t like who I was. I could be condescending, judgmental and self-centered. In other words, at times I was a real bitch. And I was unhappy. I am not proud of who I was and how I acted. I wanted to…

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    You Have a Choice

    January 14, 2018 - By Melissa Heisler

    One of the films I saw at the Cabo San Lucas International Film Festival was I, Tonya. After the Golden Globes where Allison Janney rightfully deserved an award for her portrayal of Tonya’s mother, a lot of people were upset that a movie “promoted” someone who did something bad. Interesting…

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    Cut Yourself Some Slack

    December 10, 2017 - By Melissa Heisler

    As we prepare to close out one year and move into another, many of us look back with disappointment. We could have done this or that better. We didn’t take advantage of an opportunity that arose. We didn’t act our best in a certain relationship. We beat ourselves us and…

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    Look for the Lesson

    July 9, 2017 - By Melissa Heisler

    Sometimes people don’t understand me because I don’t let my emotions run away with me (for the most part). A car cuts me off and I smile and wave. When someone is rude to me I only become more kind to them. In the current world where righteous indignation is…

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    Inspirational Living

    June 11, 2016 - By Melissa Heisler

    I always thought I had to help people and save the world. For the first thirty or so years of my life, I was focused on helping others. I made sure friends and family had what they needed. I supported charities. I put my needs and desires legions behind the…

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    Understanding Others: Getting Below the Surface

    January 26, 2016 - By Melissa Heisler

    The Pixar movie, Inside Out, has been nominated for an Oscar for best animated feature film. And rightly so.  The film is about a young girl, Riley, whose family moves from Minnesota to San Francisco. The move is difficult on Riley as she had to leave her friends and beloved…

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    May 22, 2015 - By Melissa Heisler

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  • Confucius Wisdom

    April 20, 2015 - By Melissa Heisler

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  • Martha Beck Quote

    April 13, 2015 - By Melissa Heisler

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  • Henry David Thoreau Quote

    April 11, 2015 - By Melissa Heisler

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